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EMDR Trauma Retreat: Day 5

 Today started with a little more dread because I knew we would be tackling the car crash today. I really struggled today, as one might imagine I might. We spent most of the day just trying to desensitize me from the numbness I've built up over the past 4.5 years and allow me to feel feelings related to this again. I feel like we were lightly successful. I'm trying to be kind to myself.



One of the cool things was that I imagined reaching out to a friend and then after a round checked my phone and found a text from them checking in at about the same time I'd imagined reaching out to them for help. <3  

I came back to my room and collapsed for a nap and I'm waiting for dinner to be delivered. I might do laundry tonight, but I might wait until tomorrow. Oooohhhhh, such big things happening here. Haha! 

I've decided that it's important for me to share several articles from the crash as well as for me to review them again, so if you decide to look at them - here they are: 

Driver charged in crash that killed father, daughter from Racine County

Racine man charged in drunk driving crash that killed father, daughter

Drunk Driver Faces 2 Homicide Charges in Crash that Killed Man, 9-Year-Old Daughter

Father, daughter killed in 4 Mile Road crash

Man accused of drinking at hockey game, strip club prior to crash that killed father, daughter reaches plea deal

20 years in prison for drunken-driving, double-fatal crash

Racine man gets 20 years for Caledonia crash that killed dad, daughter





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